Before dynamic add_procs the openib_btl_size_queues was called exactly
once for non-dynamic jobs. Now the function is called on each new
connection so the calculation was wrong. Re-wrote the function to
correctly calculate the CQ size and only attempt to adjust the CQ if
the requested size has changed. This fixes a bug when using the openib
btl on psm2 hardware that is caused by the time needed to resize a
CQ. The overhead was causing udcm to timeout and fail.
Signed-off-by: Nathan Hjelm <hjelmn@lanl.gov>