Some of the show_help() messages that were added in 40afd525f8 were
really normal / expected behavior (e.g., if 2 peers connect in the TCP
BTL more-or-less simultaneously, one of them will drop the connection
-- no need to show_help() about this; it's expected behavior). Roll
back these messages to be opal_output_verbose() kinds of messages.
Signed-off-by: Jeff Squyres <jsquyres@cisco.com>