bugfix: major: openib send credits returned correctly after a fault for pending frags to dead processes; also tweak the default IB retry timeouts tomake this happen faster
Make it compile in non-debug builds
Mark the IB endpoint as failed when invoking an error; this resolves UDCM connection deadlocks
Changing the default IB retry timeouts is not a good idea.
We'll need to find another way to speedup credit recovery in failure cases.
Remove ULFM specific cases
Signed-off-by: Aurelien Bouteiller <bouteill@icl.utk.edu>