btl_openib_connect_udcm when notifying not to listen to an fd to ensure
that the main thread does not continue until the service thread has
processed the message
Adds ability to send message to openib async thread to tell it to
ignore the ERR state on a specific QP. Adds this call to udcm_module_finalize
so when we set the error state on the QP it doesn't cause the
openib async thread to abort the mpi program prematurely
Fixes trac:3161
This commit was SVN r27064.
The following Trac tickets were found above:
Ticket 3161 --> https://svn.open-mpi.org/trac/ompi/ticket/3161
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