assumes the send request is derived from mca_pml_base_send_request_t,
but this is not true for pml cm, so we end up freeing invalid pointer.
We cannot take the data pointer from the pml send request, so we pass
the allocated buffer pointer in req_complete_cb_data, and put the
osc_rdma_module pointer in that buffer as well.
Previously, osc_pt2pt was used with pml_cm which didn't have this
problem.
cmr=v1.7.5:reviewer=ompi-rm1.7
This commit was SVN r30967.