the ompi_convertor_need_buffers function to only return 0 if the convertor
is homogeneous (which it never does on the trunk, but does to on v1.2, but
that's a different issue). Only enable the heterogeneous rdma code for
a btl if it supports it (via a flag), as some btls need some work for this
to work properly. Currently only TCP and OpenIB extensively tested
This commit was SVN r15990.