btl/openib: set send flags only after endpoint is connected

The max inline send size on a queue pair is not available until after
the endpoint is connected. Before this commit the send flags
(including the inline flag) were set before this value was
initialized. This commit moves setting the send_flags down to
mca_btl_openib_put_internal which is only called after the endpoint is
connected. This fixes a bug when using osc/rdma.

Signed-off-by: Nathan Hjelm <hjelmn@lanl.gov>

opal/mca/btl/openib/btl_openib_put.c

@@ -85,7 +85,6 @@ int mca_btl_openib_put (mca_btl_base_module_t *btl, struct mca_btl_base_endpoint
 
     /* post descriptor */
     to_out_frag(frag)->sr_desc.opcode = IBV_WR_RDMA_WRITE;
-    to_out_frag(frag)->sr_desc.send_flags = ib_send_flags(size, &(ep->qps[qp]), 1);
     to_out_frag(frag)->sr_desc.wr.rdma.remote_addr = remote_address;
 
     qp_inflight_wqe_to_frag(ep, qp, to_com_frag(frag));
@@ -140,11 +139,14 @@ int mca_btl_openib_put_internal (mca_btl_base_module_t *btl, struct mca_btl_base
     struct ibv_send_wr *bad_wr;
     int rc;
 
+    /* NTH: the inline send size and remote SRQ number are only available once the endpoint is
+     * connected. By setting these values here instead of mca_btl_openib_put we guarantee
+     * both fields are initialized */
+    to_out_frag(frag)->sr_desc.send_flags = ib_send_flags (to_com_frag(frag)->sg_entry.length,
+                                                           &(ep->qps[qp]), 1);
+
 #if HAVE_XRC
     if (MCA_BTL_XRC_ENABLED && BTL_OPENIB_QP_TYPE_XRC(qp)) {
-        /* NTH: the remote SRQ number is only available once the endpoint is connected. By
-         * setting the value here instead of mca_btl_openib_put we guarantee the rem_srqs
-         * array is initialized. */
 #if OPAL_HAVE_CONNECTX_XRC
         to_out_frag(frag)->sr_desc.xrc_remote_srq_num = ep->rem_info.rem_srqs[qp].rem_srq_num;
 #elif OPAL_HAVE_CONNECTX_XRC_DOMAINS